VERBAL AND NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION CONGRUENT IN THIS INTERACTION
Was verbal and nonverbal communication congruent in this interaction? What factors may have affected communication (e.g., gender, generations, culture, values, environment)? Could there have been physiological or psychological noise?
Reflection:
I recently had a miscommunication with a colleague that highlighted the importance of clear and effective communication. We were discussing a project deadline, and I interpreted their response to mean that the deadline was flexible. However, when I followed up on the project, my colleague expressed frustration that I hadn't completed it on time.
Upon further reflection, I realized that our miscommunication stemmed from a combination of factors. First, our verbal communication was not entirely congruent. While I interpreted my colleague's response as meaning the deadline was flexible, they were actually expecting a strict adherence to the original timeline. Second, our cultural backgrounds may have played a role. My colleague, who is from a culture that places a high value on punctuality, may have interpreted a vague response as a lack of commitment.
Additionally, physiological noise may have contributed to the miscommunication. We were both under pressure to meet multiple deadlines, which may have made it difficult to concentrate and process information accurately. If we had taken a moment to clarify our understanding of the deadline and ensure that we were on the same page, we could have avoided this misunderstanding.