With the help of a family member, friend, or colleague, practice using Petersen’s Talker-Listener Card and the five different ways of responding described by France and Weikel (Chapter 2). Share what you discovered about yourself. How do conversations change when using different response strategies and when violating versus adhering to the rules of effective communication?
Scenario:
Imagine you’re discussing a movie with a friend (let’s call them Alex) who recently saw it. You haven’t seen it yet, but you’re interested in their opinion.
Petersen’s Talker-Listener Card:
Use a piece of paper or a card and fold it in half to create two sections. Label one side “Talker” and the other “Listener.” Throughout the conversation, take turns switching roles.
France and Weikel’s Five Response Strategies:
Discoveries about Yourself:
Changes in Conversation Style:
Overall, practicing with these tools can help you:
By consciously practicing these techniques, you can become a more effective communicator in your everyday interactions.