When conflict is poorly managed it can have a negative impact on children’s relationships, on their self-esteem and on their learning. However, teaching children the skills for resolving conflict can help significantly. By learning to manage conflict effectively, children’s skills for getting along with others can be improved. Children are much happier, have better friendships and are better learners at school when they know how to manage conflict well.
Chi Yang and Jill, 4-year old’s, are fighting over a doll. Chi Yang yells at Jill, “I hate you! You are mean and ugly, and I will never play with you again!”
a. What would you do to remedy this situation in a way that is emotionally healthy for both children?
b. What could be done in the future to prevent situations like this from happening?
c. Using children’s book is a strategy that can be used to promote empathy, kindness, and compassion. Search on the internet and list 2 books that teach children about conflict.
14. Systematic observation of a child’s behavior during play makes it possible to obtain relevant data to describe, explain, and understand fundamental aspects of the child’s development and learning.
Amanda is new to your center. She seems interested in many areas in the center but rarely speaks. When she does speak, it is difficult to hear her voice. (Page 166)
a. Why does an assessment need to be done?
b. How should this assessment be completed? How will you gather information?
c. What teacher-produced records will be kept? (Page 171)
d. What child-produced materials will be used to assess Amanda?
e. What materials completed by the parent will be used to create Amanda’s program?
f. How would you use standards and assessment to benefit Amanda?
Children’s Conflicts:
a. Remediating the Doll Fight:
b. Preventing Future Conflicts:
c. Books Promoting Empathy and Conflict Resolution:
Amanda’s Assessment:
a. Need for Assessment:
b. Assessment Completion:
c. Teacher-Produced Records:
d. Child-Produced Materials:
e. Parent-Completed Materials:
f. Standards and Assessment Benefits for Amanda: