Finding out a fellow student in your counseling program is struggling with depression and has not sought therapy while preparing to begin their internship presents a complex ethical and personal dilemma. Here are some potential steps you can take:

1. Express Concern and Offer Support:

• Express your genuine care and concern for your fellow student’s well-being.
• Offer non-judgmental support and let them know you are available to listen if they want to talk.
• Encourage them to seek professional help from a licensed therapist.

2. Maintain Confidentiality:

• Do not share your classmate’s personal information with anyone else without their explicit consent. This includes faculty, other students, or supervisors.
• Emphasize the importance of confidentiality and respect their privacy.

3. Consider Reporting Concerns:

• Weigh the potential risks and benefits of reporting your concerns.
• While you cannot force someone to seek help, ethical codes in counseling often mandate reporting concerns if the student’s well-being or the safety of others is at risk.
• Consult with your program director or a trusted faculty member to discuss your concerns and explore potential reporting options if necessary. They can provide guidance on navigating the complex ethical considerations and available resources.

4. Prioritize Your Own Well-being:

• Engaging in difficult conversations can be emotionally draining. It’s crucial to take care of yourself by prioritizing your own well-being.
• Seek support from your program’s support services, a therapist, or a trusted friend/family member to manage your own emotions and challenges.

Additional Resources:

• Your program’s ethics code can provide specific guidance on how to handle ethical dilemmas like this one.
• Many universities offer counseling services to students, and your classmate might benefit from utilizing these resources.
• The American Counseling Association (ACA) Ethics Committee website (https://www.counseling.org/knowledge-center/ethics) offers resources and guidance on ethical conduct.

Remember, this situation requires a balanced approach. Offering support, respecting confidentiality, and exploring potential reporting options while prioritizing your own well-being are crucial aspects of navigating this sensitive situation.